Mastering the Art of Magnetism in Dealing with Others
When applying magnetism in your interactions with people, the first and most crucial goal is to establish an agreeable feeling in their minds. Before you attempt to sway someone's actions, ensure that they feel positively toward you. This is the foundation of all successful influence. Only when this positive rapport has been secured should you move forward with any attempt to guide their actions.
In any magnetic interaction where you're trying to bring others in line with your desires, it's important to evoke a magnetic energy within yourself. Visualize them already agreeing with and acting on your wishes. The key is to combine willpower with belief — not only willing them to do what you desire, but also thinking of it as already accomplished.
Your internal state should remain calm, buoyant, and hopeful, no matter the external tactics you employ. Concentrate on your desired outcome, thinking of it as already achieved. It’s important to remember that some people may not respond instantly. This delay is natural, as some minds take longer to absorb and act upon your silent will.
One of the most effective strategies is allowing people to believe that they are acting on their own judgment. They should feel free, unpressured, and as though they are doing what they want, not what you want. The more they believe they are acting on their own volition, the more seamless the influence becomes.
To summarize this, a noted scientific writer once said:
"Life is not a bully who swaggers out into the open universe, upsetting the laws of energy in all directions, but rather a consummate strategist, who, sitting in his secret chamber over his wires, directs the movements of a great army."
This quote beautifully encapsulates the essence of magnetism. True magnetism isn't about force or overt power but about quiet, strategic influence that gently directs events toward your desired outcome.
The Assumption Principle of Magnetism: Now, we arrive at the key principle of success-magnetism: always assume success.
Think of every goal as already achieved, every challenge as already overcome. By believing that your endeavors are accomplished, you align yourself with the energy of success and draw it toward you.
